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This Book Is Dedicated To A Man Who Doesn't Need To Read It:—My Cherished Friend
HOMER CROY
谨献给无须阅读本书的一位挚友
霍默·克罗伊
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只要将他人内心的恐惧化为奋斗,就能克服任何困难。
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成功的人际关系在于:您能洞察对方的立场,同时兼顾自己和对方的不同角度。
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人们内心深处究竟想要什么?研究表明,是对重视的渴求。
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指责和批评不能从根本上让人改变,反而会招来怨恨。
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赢得他人喜爱的6种方式:真诚地关心他人;微笑;记住他人的姓名;专注倾听他人讲话;谈论他人感兴趣的事情;让他人感到自己重要。
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不够聪明的人会批评、指责和抱怨他人——很多笨蛋都这么干。善解人意和宽容他人,则需要素养和自制。
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人际交往中您一定要记住,人并非总是理性而是充满了情绪、偏见、傲慢和虚荣。
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如何才能激发周围人的热情?答案是赞赏和鼓励。
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家庭生活中的重要法则:不指责、不要试图改变对方……